Break ups will always be painful. Nobody likes going through them and nobody wants to go through them. If you and your partner have separated and you want them back, you are not the only one. A lot of people will try their hardest to win back an ex and fail. If you do not want to risk losing your ex again and again, it is important that you follow these steps.
One wrong move could be all it takes to have your ex leave from your life for good. There is no reason for you to take any chances when it comes to getting them back. Thinking that you know exactly what you need to do to win them back is not what will help you. There is no reason for you to risk losing your ex again when you could easily follow this advice instead.
As badly as you want your ex to know you want them back, do not call them. Do not make the wrong move in thinking you need to get a hold of your ex. Just because you two are no longer in a relationship does not mean you need to go into a panic. It is going to get better and you are going to be able to get them back. So stop thinking you are never going to see or hear anything from them again. That is not going to be the case.
If you want them back avoid making any phone calls or sending any text messages, instead give them time. Give your ex space because that is what will help you win them back. Smothering them with constant phone calls and questions is not going to get you the results you are after. In fact, it may lead to you losing them for good. And that is not something you are going to want to have happen. You do not want to come across as desperate. Your ex is not going to want the same you back again. If you want to win them back and want it to last this time around you need to get back to being yourself. Start being the real you and not the person you have become. Your ex wants to be with you not the person you are trying to be, so remember that.
You need your ex to have the time to miss you. Without enough time away from you or an opportunity to truly see what life without you would be like, another shot a relationship with them won’t be successful. Just imagine how things would go if you did not sort out the problems in your past relationship together. Do you really think it would last again if you just rushed back into it?
You really need to take the time needed to let your ex miss you before you can try to win them back. You would not want to risk losing them for good by forcing them into another relationship again. So give them the time and space they need away from you. It is going to be what will help you get them back after all.